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| our wedding band |
The day that i got married marks the biggest turning point of my life. it may be 360 degree turn but i can only be happy of the changes. life has been so different since then and i would say it's the most blessed stage of my life; and when i say blessed it includes the tough and rough times because yes, blessing doesn't only come in the positive form. To give you a gist of how the first chapter of my married life has been; it was like from Jaro to Tacloban then to Vietnam (which we thought we will settle for a long term) and back to Tacloban; our Home. Being back in Tacloban was a chance for us to start a new beggining: A family that we now, enjoy. =)
Dalvinh Verl M. Dave was the reason why we got back to our homeland. he was "made in Vietnam" as they would always tease me, but we needed to move back here and raise him here. Life there in VN was not anymore conducive for us to start a family. It was a bit complicated for me to continue my pregnancy there to start with, and this is because of the cultural and language barriers and with the not so advanced medical practice that they have is another factor. it was a big decision to make but through prayers we have felt that the Lord wanted us to go back to where we belong.
and now I'm hitched, let us talk about it. life for me has become so different after i tied a knot with the man i felt the Lord has given me to have half of my life-time with. marriage i realized is not that easy to have but by God's grace going through this journey makes it more bearable. (hehehe) going through its ups and downs becomes lighter. to thank Him for whatever comes your way; good and bad is a joy ride in a rocky road.
i still can not say that i am having the perfect marriage because i know we still have a long-long way to go. after all, there is no perfect marriage. what i can only tell is that, i am happy. I am happy becuase this is what He has given me.
